Study Reveals Width Is More Important To Women Than Length
We all know the stories about Asian men's sexual prowess, or the lack thereof, and the age old jokes about the "size issue"but is any of it true?
A recent study shows when it comes to penises, length matters more to men than to women.
About 90 percent of women actually prefer a wide penis to a long one, according to two studies included in the review. Eighty-five percent of women reported being satisfied with their partner’s penis size, compared to only 55 percent for men.
The review, conducted by Drs. Kevan Wylie and Ian Eardley of the Porterback Clinic and Royal Hallamshire Hospital in Sheffield and St. James’ Hospital in Leeds, United Kingdom, respectively, combines results from more than 50 international research projects into penis size and small penis syndrome (SPS) conducted since 1942.
“The issue of attractiveness to women is complex, but most data suggest that penile size is much lower down the list of priorities for women than such issues as a man’s personality and external grooming,” the researchers write.
That's right, fellas, a good comb and a lint brush is more important than a penile pump and a bottle of Viagra!
But are Asian guys really smaller than their Western counterparts? Actually, no. According to this study, the notion that penis size varies according to race, for example, is false. Ironically is is the guys with the normal sized schlongs that are more worried about being too small than the guys with micropenis syndrome:
One surprising finding was that small penis syndrome (SPS), also known as the “locker room syndrome,” is much more common in men with normal sized penises than those who have so-called micropensises (penises with a flaccid length of less than 2.7 inches). An Internet survey of more than 52,000 heterosexual men found that 12 percent thought their penises were too small, even though micropenis is estimated to affect only about 0.6 percent of men.
So do the math: if only 0.6 percent of men have micropenises, and Asian men account for over 60% of the worlds male population (since 61% of the worlds population lives in Asia) then even if all the micopenises in the world belonged to Asian men (and fat white guys are proof that's not true!) that wouls still mean that over 99% of Asian men are average in length, or better.
One young Asian lady wrote complaining that Asian men are no good in bed. Maybe the young lady is hanging with the wrong crowd, looking for love in all the wrong places, or maybe she doesn't realize that most guys are pretty awful in bed.
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CocoaAndMe thinks this is a racist plot by bigots to make Asian men look bad. Or by women trying to make Asian men look bad.
I know this has been on a lot of people’s minds when they hear that I am a Black woman and I am married to a Chinese man. One of my good friends over at www.speakingofchina.com answered a questions about the topic on her blog that I have posted below. However, before you read her very insightful and true opinion on the subject I wanted to tell you my experiences.
I have am not sorry or embarrassed to say that I have dated several types of Asian men. I am admitting that in my past I have been on a quest to find my Asian prince charming and kissed .. and um .. other things .. a lot of frogs along the way. I have experienced some of the stereotypical Asian men and I am sorry to say I had to count a few tiles on the ceiling to wait for it to be over. But I have also experienced some amazing lovers. I can recall a young Japanese man that left me pleasantly satisfied and had me following him around for months. I also have had a Vietnamese man who was quite apt in making sure I was completely satisfied before he himself was. I kept him around for over a year. My husband has good days and bad days like most people. But usually tries to make sure I am satisfied and even asks me afterwards just in case he needs to prepare for another round. For the most part it depends on the man.
Some Asian men really want to prove that they are not the stereotypical small penis Asian man who all the westerns talk about and they will go the extra mile to make sure the woman is happy. But as my friend states in her blog most Asian Cultures are not open about sex they see it as just what they need to do the reproduce or what they do in secret.
Nowadays, the younger Chinese men are finding out that there is more to it. Yellow movies, or porn movies are sneaking into China and sex stores are being open in dark corners under secret, so more and more men and women are finding out the joys they can have. Although, pink houses or prostitution has been around China for decades it was something that bad women did and men paid for not something you would do with a “good girl” or your wife. Times are changing, trust me I know. When I first came to China (before my husband), I did not have any trouble with Chinese men wanting to do their best to please me. I even had to tell a few that my legs do not do what you saw in that movie… slow it down mister.
The age old question: Are Chinese men good in bed? I would say some Yes and some No. But like any man of any nationality…there are good ones and bad ones. However, I have found that the more you love someone the better the sex really can be, because when you have sex you include your heart.
Please enjoy the article below and visit her website. Although, she is not a black woman but she is American and married to a Chinese man and has a lot of information for those of you interested in dating Asian.
sex in singapore asks:
Any idea why my Singaporean (Chinese) lover is so terrible in bed? He is 35, has had long term relationships, has been exposed to the west as he is a successful producer and has been all over the world, he is exposed to the concept of good sex through films and media… so why is he so clueless? He doesn’t even try. In the past his gfs have been Chinese and Singaporean.. When I asked Chinese friends they say in Chinese culture men are less romantic and more passive and don’t want to give pleasure to women. Others say Asiansare just not as passionate as in european countries for example. Again I find this hard to believe, I am sure there are many Asians who know what they are doing.. but I do hear western men talking of their Chinese girlfriends and how they have never had orgasm etc. I am interested to know what you think of Chinese/Asian sexual relationships and whether it is in fact normal for the sex to be so … bad? I think this is unlikely and I think it is simply that my guy for whatever reason is just totally clueless. But can any generalisations be made on this subject? thanks!
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The best sex I’ve ever had has been with Chinese men (including my husband). And that tells me that there are plenty of wonderful lovers to be found among the sons of Han.
But does that mean bad in bed is the norm? Or that Chinese men are less passionate or romantic as lovers? Those are questions that I bet the “Asian men have small penises” camp would love to jump on.
Well, Chinese men live in a culture where sex is much more of a taboo.
Take my husband, for example. He grew up in a home where love was expressed indirectly, where no one ever hugged or kissed in public — or even hugged or kissed him. His parents never talked to him about sex or dating, and sex education at school was a joke (he had to learn about it from late-night radio shows, his friends, and later the Internet).
Or what about my first Chinese boyfriend? The first time he had sex with a girl (not me), he had no idea what to do, and she had to show him how. (I will say he turned out to be a fantastic lover, despite this story he told me).
Because of the generational gap between Asian fathers and their American-born sons, Asian men often miss out on the dating tips most American men get from their dads.
While he wrote that with Asian American men in mind, chances are, Chinese men in China aren’t getting any dating tips from their dads either.
When it comes to sex, I think Chinese men are probably not as well-informed by their families, schools and the culture as a whole. And they’re generally not socialized to talk about sex or express their sexuality.
So, for some men, that can lead to problems — one, that he’s too sexually repressed to perform well; or two, that he’s less likely to communicate about sex in bed. Believe me, movies don’t enter into the equation. He could watch the most accomplished sex scenes in all of cinema — but if he doesn’t allow himself to be sexual, or to talk about it, it’s going to be that much more difficult to be good in bed.
Remember, these are simply potential problems for some, but not all, Chinese men. After all, if all Chinese men were so terrible, how is it they’ve still given me the best sex I’ve ever had?
I think I speak for ALL ASIAN guys when I say "all of our penises are small, tiny in fact." They stop growing at age 4 for us asian men. My grandmother told me this was normal when I was 15, then she laughed, then she cried. Then she died. In the locker room I would face my locker as not to show my shitake mushroom. In college, on Friday night circle jerk time we would turn out the lights and only use two fingers so it felt like we were holding a lot. My first girlfriend said "it looks like a popcorn shrimp" and then she took a pic of it with her phone and texted "as if my night couldn't get any worse." to someone. They responded "LOL" and I laughed with her, then she said "What's wrong with you?" I just sat, uncertain what to do and watched her leave. It was pathetic, I should have tried harder. I currently work for Magnum condoms for their sister company "Mini Mites". All day long they make molds of my tiny tot for different style condoms. I am just telling the truth to set us free.
There are "Showers" and there are "Growers" a friend once told me. Some men walk around with penis always at 60%(shower) full and some walk around with 30%(grower)and many variations between. Some may gain only 30% more from their normal flacid to their normal hard. I've also noticed diet and foreplay adding inches. Hydration will help. Now don't be fooled by "latest statistics" which lately are more about politically correct than truth. View any asian porn site for a good laugh viewing childlike dinkies. I once let an asian guy screw me in my ear so he could be satistified. By the way, have you ever taken a dump so big that your butt hurt? That is what too big feels like, it's not fun either, it is more like abuse. You have to know how to use your God given junk. Love a woman the right way! Think about her satisfaction before your own because you will get yours no matter what. I was just kidding about the asian guy, it was my nostral I let him use.
Im guessing that asian guys made up those blond guy stories. Its easy enough to check on any porn site. The smallest penises are in the asian sites and there is no contest. Japanese guys build great cars but not big penises, it may be why they love using toys. The average guys penis is about 6 inches. Again if you look at any porn site you can see variations between men of the same race. I would assume that mother nature gave black men 7 to 8 inch penises so they could get past the extra 2 inches of bubble butt their women have. They don't eat pussy either and they often think that is all they have to develope. Asian women have flat asses so mother nature gave asian men 4 to 4 1/8th inches. White women have medium size asses so 6 to 7 inches was given to whitey. Jewish guys have bigger than average ding dongs but who'd want to fuck a Jewish guy anyway. Like putting an eagles dick on a buzzard. NO THANKS. Italian guys have big doinkers, and egos and machismo to match unfortunately.
I have to say that I love Asian men. I am half Japanese and half white mix and I have always been attracted to the sexy Asian men. A sexy ass Asian man can come satisfy me anytime!
All such studies would be based on a sample of at max a few hundred men. And it may not be statistically representative of billion mean club in Asia or RoW. Even if Asian men may have shorter penis, so what? Reality is that they and their partner would be more satisfied than their Eu and US counterparts. Reason is 'The Asian culture', e.g. in Japan, China, India and Thailand. Asian women are more loyal and tolerant than Eu and US women, that helps it make a great experience. Remember, even the richest and most beautiful lovers will be unhappy if there are ego and fidelity issues that crop them.
Couldn't you have chosen a better picture? One thing i notice is black women seem to have terrible taste when they're choosing pictures. The always choose the most embarrassing/least appealing ones.
This is a really interesting topic. Thank you ladies for sharing this. In my opinion it all depends on the girls. Some girls are into the size while others don't need size to orgasm. I had a Spanish gf that didn't care about size. It was how she wanted me to do a certain thing because she knew she can get off that way. Sometimes guy that have big ones still don't have a clue on what they are doing. So if you have a preference, then seek it. I can't stand with people specifically have to mention Asian men have small ones and try their best to put them down. Why would a guy even care if an Asian guy had a big or small dick? If he did, then he's just plain gay.
Shame and deception. Asian so called lovers cannot conceive erotics as a wholeness, in mind and sprit, and this in spite of all modern efforts to educate them. Simply, after some weeks... you get bore of them.
This message is ESPECIALLY for the fascist/racist J. Maybe a police report is in order in regards to your racist abuse??
Shame and deception. Asian so called lovers cannot conceive erotics as a wholeness, in mind and sprit, and this in spite of all modern efforts to educate them. Simply, after some weeks... you get bore of them.
I love how people are lying on this to defend Asian guys.They all small penises,deal with it!
lol... u still dont believe that not all Asian men have about average size? As a woman that always curios about the size... i'd been with Asian men, Caucasian and also black guy. The shortest that i ever tasted was a Caucasian man about 4.5inc and quite thick. The longest n the thickest was a black man-i think its more than 8" meanwhile Asian guys have average size around 5- 7inc like that. For me i prefer medium size than large size coz its a bit uncomfortable. but the most important is... the skills. the big penis will be useless if you cant erect longer than 5minutes during sex...
[quote name="j"]All ASIAN GUY HAVE SMALL PENIS.End of story" This is such nonsense. The biggest lover that my wife has ever had sex with was a Korean guy. He was so big that she actually a little scared of it to start with. Once she had enjoyed it a few times she asked to measure it and take pic's. Mostly because her girlfriends wouldn't believe her about how bid it was. It was 11" long and 6" around. Thats off the charts enormous. Shut her girlfriends up for sure. And made me feel a little inadequate. Even though I enjoy our "open marriage" experiences, it doesn't feel good to know she's seeking a bigger one because she enjoyed it so much in a previous relationship. I'm not small at 7.5" x 5.5". But I simply don't measure up to her "Asian" lover. Or some of the black guys she's slept with either. So I don't care what these forums say, not all Asian guys are small.
I know this has been on a lot of people’s minds when they hear that I am a Black woman and I am married to a Chinese man. One of my good friends over at www.speakingofchina.com answered a questions about the topic on her blog that I have posted below. However, before you read her very insightful and true opinion on the subject I wanted to tell you my experiences.
